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Age range at New York lifestyle clubs — will we fit in?

Asked by BigAppleSwing38 upvotes2 answers
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We're in our mid-40s and wondering about the age range at New York lifestyle clubs. Will we be the oldest people there? Is there a specific club that caters to our demographic?

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Acceptedadventurous2gether27 upvotes

Mid-40s is actually the sweet spot for most New York lifestyle clubs! The typical range I see is 30-55, with most couples being in their late 30s to late 40s. You'll fit right in. Some clubs skew younger (especially the trendy off-premise spots), but the traditional on-premise clubs have a good mix. Nobody is judging age — the lifestyle community is more about energy, attitude, and connection than looking like models.

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hotcpl4fun18 upvotes

We're 47 and 45 and we're regulars at several New York clubs. Never felt out of place. The lifestyle community is one of the most body-positive, age-positive communities you'll find. Just bring a good attitude and have fun!

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