New York swinger club dress codes — what's actually enforced?

Dress codes vary by club in New York, but here's the general guide: **For men:** - Button-down shirt (tucked or untucked) — ALWAYS safe - Dress pants or dark jeans — most clubs allow dark jeans - Clean dress shoes or nice loafers — no sneakers, sandals, or boots - No shorts, no graphic tees, no hats **For women:** - Honestly, anything sexy goes. Cocktail dress, lingerie, bodycon — you'll see it all - Heels are common but not required - Many women bring an outfit to change into once inside **Actually enforced?** - Most New York clubs WILL turn men away for sneakers, shorts, or sloppy attire - Women almost never get turned away regardless of outfit - When in doubt, slightly overdress — you can always take layers off